Now that the Secret has become such a huge buzzword, attracting lovers and critics alike, it’s been interesting to read some of the things that are being said about the Law of Attraction.

One thing that really seems to get people going is the emphasis on taking responsibility for our lives.

The problem I see is that people tend to make the jump from there - taking responsibility - right over into BLAME. And that is really too bad.

Because if you truly do understand how the Law of Attraction works, you’d see that blame has no part in it. The reason this whole blame thing seems to come up is because we do live in a world where we are taught to immediately find blame - whether it’s blaming others, or blaming ourselves, it really doesn’t matter. As long as someone is to blame, everyone is satisfied.

The Law of Attraction doesn’t work that way. Because, put simply, you would NOT be taking responsibility if you delved into blame, whether you’re blaming someone else, or blaming yourself.

That’s why asking yourself “WHY did this happen?” is really quite pointless and irrelevant.

What you are experiencing right now, in this very moment, has nothing to do with how you’re feeling right now. It has everything to do with how you WERE feeling.

And in every moment, you have the opportunity and the choice to create your future moments by being aware of how you’re feeling.

And that’s a very powerful thing, in which there truly is no place for blame.